Sadia loves the idea of being independent, but hates/is afraid of being alone - though she probably won't admit it, of course, because she's stubborn.
Grace loves the idea of having friends, but is really nervous and avoids talking to anyone until she's comfortable.
Nate loves the idea of explaining his complex feelings, but is afraid to share them anyway.
Ender is afraid of failure, and handles his shortcomings poorly.
Ian loves the idea of power, but also tries to value being 'good' for his family and girlfriend.
Amory loves her family, but also secretly wants some friends more her age or to meet a guy she likes.
Callum loves the idea of connection, but is afraid of people at first.
Val likes connection and fun, and is afraid of power...partially why she gave so many people powers.
