Aquarius The "Strong One"

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Aquarians are very often the 'strong one' in their social groups. When times are tough an Aquarian will intuitively take over. They know exactly what to do to comfort & care for other people. They feel responsible for making sure everyone is happy. Aquarians aren't afraid to lead the group when no-one else will. Aquarians often define themselves as the strong one and feel they have to be strong all the time. Many times this is how Aquarians define their value and feel validated and useful. However Aquarians very often fail to help themselves. They often give the help, love and support to others that they should be giving to themselves first. They often drain themselves energetically trying to support others who won't even support themselves. Aquarians often find it hard to accept and let others help them. They don't like to look vulnerable or weak so they'll pretend they are ok and push others away, when all they ever want is someone to comfort and love them. Aquarians want others to help them without having to asking for it.

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