Brothers conflict scenarios

Please, Read This Carefully..

So... A lot is going on in my life right now....

A close relative died. My grandma's sister. She died last night. Now... She didn't really have a huge impact on my life, but there's not a single christmas or birthday she has ever missed. She was a kind and caring and strong person. I will miss her a lot.

Another thing that's happened is... a distant relative of mine, who lives in another country, she's... gone somewhere without telling anyone. Her husband, which I keep in touch with, he's like a big brother to me. He told me that she had been acting strange lately and that she said that she got a new job somewhere in another city and she just left without saying anything. He has no idea where she is and he's very upset and angry so... he doesn't really care where she is or what she's doing for the time being... I don't know her that well, so I don't really know what's been going on. I've tried to contact her on multiple occasions, but she hasn't responded in many months. That's before she left... So I don't know if she was acting weird back then as well or if she just didn't see my messages.

I'm a little lost.... Very scared and confused as to what is going on right now... I don't know what to do. There's nothing I can do...

I will still update. However, it's going to be a little bit slower. I've processed most of what's going on, but I'm still confused....