@writerboy242 you inspired me to live and to the love . I am a man in my 40s never married, single and no kids and all my life I hid part of who I am inorder to be accepted by others which ultimately caused me not to love how I wanted to which meant I couldn't love freely and then I denied others the opportunity to love me. Your book carried me back to child hood, my adolescents, highschool, college and the military. So many young people, blacks and males robbed of the opportunity to love and be loved