softestenergy

racism isn't an opinion.
          	homophobia isn't an opinion.
          	transphobia isn't an opinion.
          	sexism isn't an opinion.
          	
          	you don't get to say "well, it's just my opinion." or "it's just the way i see it." you don't get to disagree about someone's identity and humans rights. you don't get to use an "opinion" to excuse and hide your hate and bigotry. 

bubsfg

@softestenergy I have no choice but to stan 
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yanfeiscatalyst

@softestenergy I know so many people who are like, I support bisexuality because you can still date someone of the opposite gender but I don't support bisexuality like YOU DON'T GET TO CHOOSE CERTAIN THINGS AND HATE ON OTHERS
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softestenergy

racism isn't an opinion.
          homophobia isn't an opinion.
          transphobia isn't an opinion.
          sexism isn't an opinion.
          
          you don't get to say "well, it's just my opinion." or "it's just the way i see it." you don't get to disagree about someone's identity and humans rights. you don't get to use an "opinion" to excuse and hide your hate and bigotry. 

bubsfg

@softestenergy I have no choice but to stan 
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yanfeiscatalyst

@softestenergy I know so many people who are like, I support bisexuality because you can still date someone of the opposite gender but I don't support bisexuality like YOU DON'T GET TO CHOOSE CERTAIN THINGS AND HATE ON OTHERS
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softestenergy

also have y'all noticed how many people gatekeep the community on ig, and most of the times they do it in such a rude way? like, y'all are going to make people feel left out and shitty because of their... sexuality????????????????? 

softestenergy

@bagofbugs 
            
            exactly! like, most of the times they come to the community for help and they just get shut down because of their sexuality and idk that kinda hurts my heart 
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softestenergy

but a 14 year old trying to figure themselves out? we can help them in a nice way. not gatekeep damn 
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softestenergy

the only time we should is when it's a map/p*dophile or genuinely harmful towards the community 
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softestenergy

remember kids, your sexuality is valid even if someone tells you it isn't!! lesbians, gays, bisexuals, pansexuals, asexuals and more!! 

softestenergy

@bagofbugs 
            
            ofcourse, I just don't think we should invalidate them and make people feel shitty. they might need help finding the right label.
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softestenergy

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remember, kids, when people call you a wh*re it's sexual harassment and you don't have to let that shit slide just cause it's normalized!!! 

softestenergy

@-babybling 
            
            fr tho, and then they had the audicity to say us taking our apologies back is pathetic or whatever. like, be happy i still gave you an "i apologize" after. 
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hersirenscreams

@softestenergy | And I thank you for that but all of that is true. I mean, i know that people call friends that and that's all in between them. I mean, if they have an agreement or they are fine with that then you can't do anything about that, but girlfriends, wives, and strangers, that's where you draw the line because the commitment ans relationships are completely different ans on a higher level then friends at that moment.
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softestenergy

@-babybling 
            
            and the fact that they don't seem to realize or admit that what they did is wrong is just.. yikes. one of them really thinks they just said the truth. it's a big old mess and nobody should let that slide just because it's normalized. they're strangers and the minors that have been called such have made it very clear they didn't like it. 
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