
sha-bae
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I know I suck for not posting but I’m going through a breakup at the moment and moving out on my own with baby bean so just give me a minute to get my crap together and I’ll write some more! Be careful who you trust and be very careful who you have babies with y’all! Being a young single mom is not fun.

miciodado
@sha-bae Hi darling,I,m Sorry for all the struggle you're going through. You gave us all a pretty good advice...but I think you are a very strong girl,and even if now things are complicated,I'm pretty sure that you'll always be the best mum Zander could ever ask for. Lots of love and good luck. ❤️❤️❤️
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sha-bae
I know I suck for not posting but I’m going through a breakup at the moment and moving out on my own with baby bean so just give me a minute to get my crap together and I’ll write some more! Be careful who you trust and be very careful who you have babies with y’all! Being a young single mom is not fun.

miciodado
@sha-bae Hi darling,I,m Sorry for all the struggle you're going through. You gave us all a pretty good advice...but I think you are a very strong girl,and even if now things are complicated,I'm pretty sure that you'll always be the best mum Zander could ever ask for. Lots of love and good luck. ❤️❤️❤️
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sha-bae
Highly considering deleting playing with fire. I know a lot of you love that story and I’ve thought pretty hard about it but after reading some of the things people are commenting it’s clear the story isn’t portraying the message I wanted it to and it’s clearly fueling some peoples EDs and insecurities. I hope y’all won’t be mad I just dont want to feel responsible for causing people to feel that way!!!

miciodado
@_shayla_michelle_ Dear,you don't have to feel responsible for other people's ED problems...you put a lot of trigger warnings in the foreword,and in the story there's nothing that makes ED appear as a cool thing to emulate,in order to have a perfect body. The message is definetely the opposite! People who suffer ED should use it as a symbol,which shows that getting better and healing is possibile. Love is the answer:more self-esteem,ignoring people that brings a girl down with rude comments. Even if said people are someone 's parents. Because if they don't love their daughter, there's always someone else who can make a girl feel loved and desired. I relate so much,because I suffered anorexia as a teenager,and a boy saved me...it's true. Then I improved my relationship with my parents,and it helped me,too. People should focus on this,reading the story. ❤️❤️❤️
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sha-bae
@miciodado thank you!! the whole point of the story was about getting better and getting help cause I suffered with those issues as a young girl and I end very once thought about the face that I was literally slowly killing my self until I was out of it. I wanted to spread the message that getting help is an option! Getting better is possible. I hate that so many people are using it as fuel for there ED or that the imagery triggers them that was my whole reasoning for making so many warnings. I just hate feeling responsible for triggering others ☹️
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miciodado
@_shayla_michelle_ Hi dear,I really hope you won't cancel Playing with Fire,I love that story. The message of the story for me it's clear: you want to tell us all that ED are very dangerous ,and whoever suffers an ED needs help and care. Violet is slowly getting better,since she has Patrick giving her attention,making her feel loved ,sexy,beautiful. The way you describe all of this is amazing. Anyway,you're the author and the decision is up to you...if you delete this story,I'll miss it so much!
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saelee12345
Are you gonna update?

immoonysmoon394
I love you and your book they are written perfectly and yes I have read all of them and let me just say I love how you wrote Henry and Patrick. You are my favorite!

immoonysmoon394
No problem and don't worry you take your time to adjust to the new baby! they can be a lot sometimes I know that but they are so adorable :)) but when you are ready again I am gonna read those books so hard
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anime_titszs
Are you still going to write?

Psychotic-Quinn
Congratulations!!

dwighty_nighty007
Are u still updating your pure book?

529785m
can i just say that i love your writing. you're so talented dude. it's really impressive

sha-bae
Hey! I just wanted to say that I hope everyone around me is safe and doing good. I know that people have lost power! I have no water at the moment due to the freezing temperatures but I can’t imagine what everyone else is going through here!! Please if you are in Texas BE SAFE!! Sending y’all all my positive energy! Be careful and stay warm