pandas-and-peaches

BOO im here again cause i literally just remembered i wrote this, talk to me about your crushes im nosy 

madaboutblob

ok so i need some advice. i think i like this guy. but i just found out that my close friend thinks he's like super duper hot. i can't tell if he likes me cus he always talks to me in class and he sometimes teases me and we walk around school sometimes and sometimes we make awkward eye contact.  i really don't want my friend to like feel that i'm just doing this to be mean to her because we have had some bumps in the road. what should i do, like ask him how he feels about this one girl? i'm in 8th grade by the way. and one of his friends asked if we are dating and he like didn't say no, is that like a bad thing?? i'm really and in this sense so pls help.

Tiffanyplw

Hiii, I had many problem I been through this year and I need some help. There is this guys I liked before and I founded out he likes me too that is a good thing. Me and him dated for 1 month since August 8 2023.We had many talks together and I was enjoying my life with him. But then the problem was, I was a shy and unconfident person around him so we couldn't talks at school but only after school cause I liked him too much he was like the best person I ever had. After a month later, our communication starts decreasing in chat. I was worry this would end now. soon after that September 5-6 he started ignoring my text after a text I text him saying “hey I'm sorry“. I thought it was a misunderstanding and waited the next day. The next day I saw him but of course we didn't talk so I go with the flow but then he didn't show up usual at the place we always go after school so I quickly we to home and apologise again but was left on read again my heart sank and knowing he broke up with me. Soon the next day, we had a matching hairband before that and seeing he wasn't wearing anymore but in mind I already confirm it was a break up. Till now 2024 I have never ever knew why he broke up with me yet and I need some help why and I couldn't stop thinking about him till now cause he every where in my sight.
          
          

citylightsureyes

@Tiffanyplw heyyy you shouldn't apologise to him that much its not ur fault!!!! try maybe talking to him in a paragraph ,it doesnt matter if he leaves u on seen or not the point is the paragraph is you explaining the situation in ur pov , if he doesnt reply dont speak to him ever again , dont even look his way, got it??i hope my advice helps xxx
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Tiffanyplw

@Tiffanyplw another thing during school before he ignore me after school I wasn't in a mood cause I was on my yk. And didn't speak to him properly and decline his offer from giving me a chocolate candy. But overall his the most kindest and sweetest men I ever had and lose him 
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Sarah1512281

Hey y’all so I have a crush on that boy we’re in a different school but we use to text and I through he like me but after summer time I learn that he has a girlfriend and the girlfriend is one of my friends I was upset and happy for them since that day I try to forget him I couldn’t I like him more each day and I feel guilty because he with a friend he so nice and he always understands me that why I liked him I never once look at him in my school before because I used to have a crush on his brother but when I at their personalities I didn’t like him anymore I try to tell him I like him but he told me he was confused so I make an excuse that it was a joke and he buy it i really need you guys opinions on this 

That_FreakCj

HOW DO I TALK TO MY CRUSH?!?!?!? 
          
          We go to the same band practice and I'm the introvert of the whole group so I don't talk to ANYONE. (Maybe if my social battery was high enough that day) and he only talks to his one friend, I'm gonna call him A and his friend D. Me nd him don't ever interact, and we only see eachother once a week. I have no idea how to talk to him cus D is always right by his side unless either of them are gone. And I think it'll be akward to js go up to him and start talking to him with D js standing there listening. Plus i could NEVER do that cus im too scared. Me and A have talked before and accidentally held hands (kinda) but we had to talk tbh cus it was a minigame of communication. But i think it counts. PLEASE HELP I ONLY HAVE LIKE 5 MONTHS TO GET TK KNOW HIM BEFORE THAT SEASON OF BAND EMDS AND WE HAVE TO CHOOSE NEW BANDSSS.☹️

That_FreakCj

@aussie_cedric  when the new bands come out I'm gonna ask which one he's gonna pick and If he asks why I'm gonna say that I want to be in a band with someone I know so im not alone and w someone ik and I think it'll work cus he's nice asf and he's been nice to everyone so far soo
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aussie_cedric

@That_FreakCj I'm praying that you're able to talk to him and be in the same band again. Maybe try having another convo with confidence because confidence is everything. Make sure your mindset isn't set up for failure because you have a goal and motive. Use that as an advantage. I hope it helps!
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That_FreakCj

@aussie_cedric I tried talking to him cus his friend wasn't there but he didn't notice and I looked schizophrenic☹️ we literally only have 6 more rehearsals left so I have to talk to him enough in 6 days to get to know him or get lucky to be in my next band with him again :/ (my luck is ass)
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GabeDonahue3

Hey so there's this friend that I have a crush on, but they live an hour and a half away from me, plus we both can't drive. In your honest opinion, do you think it would be worth dating if we rarely get to see each other?

pandas-and-peaches

@GabeDonahue3 broooo i went through the exact same thing. we both really tried but it just didnt work out in the end cause of the distance like we only saw eachother once a month. 100% the most upsetting thing ive been through cause i cared about him so so much, and it was made worse cause it was prolonged for weeks. but if you're both prepared to be committed to eachother and overcome the distance then theres no reason that it cant work out, just talk about this with them and decide on not necessarily what you want, but what you know will be best. hope that helps and good luck :))
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pandas-and-peaches

it is so weird to me how people still love my one shots LMAO i kinda hate the book i think it's shite but ty everyone for still reading it it's very very flattering ilysm <3

totalsimp123

@pandas-and-peaches 
            hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii! I love your book. Sorry. don't know what elese to say here.
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bee0427

Hello!
          So I have a crush. We are both 17 for context
          We are both asexual/"ace" (someone who has a lack of sexual attraction) and we met on a discord server for ace people. I don't have many friends that are my age and ace so when I saw he was my age I got excited and dm him. 
          We started talking and for a while it was completely platonic for me but after a month or so, but he became my crush. After that we kept talking, though I have never seen his face and since we had been talking for a few months at this point, I brought up the idea of a video call and he was actually really excited about the idea but apparently his parents work from home and we'd have to call when his parents weren't busy.
          But he's been on a break from social media since early July so I haven't been able to talk to him but he's literally one of the funniest and nicest people I've ever met. He's the first guy to ever call me pretty (I'm overweight so I don't usually get those compliments outside of my friend group) and the message he left for me before he went on his break was just so sweet he said: "Just before I go, I wanted to let you know that you are one of the nicest people I have ever met and that you are amazing" like . He's also gotten me through the hardest period of my life but he was there for me and listened and just supported me in every way possible, that along with the voice thing made me want to be with him or at the very least keep him in my life.
          
          The only things holding me back from asking him on a date are 1, I wouldn't want to ruin what we have because that would hurt more if I lost him completely than if I kept it to myself. 2, he lives across the ocean and is 5 hours ahead of me. 3, I'm just a scaredy-cat and am scared to ask him.
          
          Any advice on what to do or anything is welcome, and I'm sorry that this is so long 
          
          Thanks in advance!! 

pandas-and-peaches

@bee0427 hi! your story is absolutely adorable you both seem like such lovely people! i think you should go for it when he comes back from his break because you've got nothing to lose. especially since it's a long distance friendship already it will already feel much less nerve wracking than it being someone you know irl and see all the time. i get how you're scared of ruining the friendship you already have but confessing your feelings may open up a whole new route into your relationship. even if he doesn't share your feelings i believe you won't lose eachother and can still maintain the same friendship. even though yes it will hurt a bit because you like him it will definitely hurt less than not speaking to him ever again. i hope this helps and i'm really rooting for you guys <33
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Su1c1d31smyk1nk

Hello how are you? So I need help. How do I start talking to my crush. I'm too scared to talk to him.

Crazy_Nugget23

@Su1c1d31smyk1nk me too gurl me too but since i now at least a little bit about such things i can maybe help you with that.
            So tipp no.1 at first to you should try to be friends with his friends and hang out sometimes 
            Tipp no.2 be yourself when you talk with him at first it is ofcourse hard if you talk to him (ofcourse duh) it might need some days.
            Tipp no.3 look him in the eyes and smile when he talks .
            Tipp no.4 maybe invite him to go to (idk how to call it in english these things where the coasters are and carousels are) just for fun or so.
            That's sadly all i know but good luck girl 
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