Coleman that was extremely inappropriate. Titus and Bernie are trying to help you; Bernie by apologizing to that extent, and Titus for trying to shed light on the situation.
You refusing absolutely them both in that way, is ignoring both of their God-like character, and refusing to let your own character shine. Titus wants to help, and you saying 'Stop telling me what to do' is equivalent to you saying, 'I'll do what I want when I want'.
I think you need to remember what Christ would do in this situation if he was in your place.