lightsupharold

i just read in a fic “i’m so obsessed w u baby” and there’s a masochistic part of me that wants them to become to infatuated that we get the trope “if i can’t have u, no one can” and then they murder them just for a tragic ending. not romanticizing that toxic FELONY but i think a tragic ending like that would be so unique in harry/1d culture of fanfics✨

lightsupharold

i just read in a fic “i’m so obsessed w u baby” and there’s a masochistic part of me that wants them to become to infatuated that we get the trope “if i can’t have u, no one can” and then they murder them just for a tragic ending. not romanticizing that toxic FELONY but i think a tragic ending like that would be so unique in harry/1d culture of fanfics✨

lightsupharold

ITS MY BIRTHDAY MY BIGGEST FLEX IS SHARING IT W TOMMO SO THEREFORE I AM A SASS MASTER AS WELL✨✨✨ but i fr never thought i’d make it to 18, snd here i am! thank you all for being so kind to me even if it was a simple comment back or just being a welcoming fandom. thinking of writing something on my own maybe.. but it isn’t gonna be for younger audiences if it is and i’m emotionally unstable soooo buckle up BUT HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO LOUIS AND I 

lightsupharold

 this is important i’m gonna talk about something really quick: 
          i’m currently reading “Toxic”, and this came to mind. victim/ survivors guilt. a lot of the time when something traumatic is happening, even if the subconscious knows that reporting it is the best thing to do, the love and empathy that someone has for someone else doesn’t just leave easily. it’s similar to stockholm syndrome. they don’t want anyone else to suffer the way they have. so this is my space for others to come to and comment and talk if they feel like they cannot talk to anyone else. if r*pe , abuse, traumatic events, anything has happened snd you don’t have a safe space, my page is a safe space. even if you’re depressed or anxious and need someone, i’m here. if you’re upset and don’t feel valid about your emotions, ILL BE HERE! EVEN IF you’re proud of yourself for something and wanna share the joy, i will share that! you’re strong snd i am proud and i love you all❤️

Funky_BiBi

@lightsupharold Thank you so much, i'd definitely keep this in mind
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lightsupharold

hey guys, just a lil drop through. i’m usually super bubbly and the clown of the group and so on but my mental health isn’t exactly the best. it is a slope and i’ve seen the lowest of the freaking lows believe me. 
          
          it’s easy to tell someone to just “be happy!” but that’s so freaking condescending it’s disgusting. people get down and due to chemical imbalances or traumatic experiences, it’s more difficult for some folks such as myself. 
          
          so i wanted to stop and give a reminder that y’all are loved, y’all are important, and y’all are needed. i’m always here for y’all ❤️