justsurvivingwith1D

Louis listening to his own songs and posting it on Instagram is such king behavior.

lunaticcat009

(i was reading my pm before wp removes the feature) i saw the one where you helped me continue ADSOL when i was so close on leaving it. I think we had started interacting post that and i'm so glad we did. you're such an interesting person to speak to

justsurvivingwith1D

Louis listening to his own songs and posting it on Instagram is such king behavior.

justsurvivingwith1D

someone in the comments of yt said they feel like larry happened at some point but that zarry is most likely to be real, and they ship narry.  i'm flabbergasted.  HOW TF-
          
          zarry had the kind of chemistry that you have with your straight bestie, you can see the love in larry's eyes, BUT WHERE DID NARRY COME FROM, IT'S SUCH A RANDOM SHIP T-T

justsurvivingwith1D

if larry doesn't come out soon, I might actually lose my mind.
          
          I'M SO TIRED OF ANTIS T-T

lunaticcat009

@justsurvivingwith1D they really do. like why you gotta ruin it for everyone?

justsurvivingwith1D

why is nobody talking about the fact that zayn was on the tonight show AND hot ones?????????

Walnut616

@justsurvivingwith1D yeah it's good to have him back and hear news about his music rather than those negative stuff and people hating on him

justsurvivingwith1D

@Walnut616 FRRRRRR LIKE WHAT, I WAS IN TOTAL SHOCK, I THOUGHT HE'D DO AN ACTUAL INTERVIEW T-T
            
            i understand why tho.  taking that step to be on the tonight show, even for only a few seconds, is a big deal, so i'm proud of him anyway <3

justsurvivingwith1D

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lmao not taylor acting like she ate at the grammys when she made fun of harry for still calling her after they 'broke up,' as if she didn't write a whole album about him ☠☠☠
          
          I'm sorry, I swear I'm not a taylor hater, but I will never (ever ever ever!) be okay with how she handled her 'break-up' with harry.  imagine being a grown-ass woman and dating someone who's barely not a minor and then publicly dissing, whore shaming, and blaming them for your failed relationship, and continuing to still feed into that narrative decades later, allowing her 'fans' to spread slander and hate about your ex who you're now on good terms with.  I love taylor, but none of that is okay.
          
          don't be afraid to acknowledge when your idols remember they're human.

justsurvivingwith1D

@lunaticcat009 fr, he was so heartbroken.  he's honestly a major reason why I don't think harry and taylor actually ever dated, cause he legit was always saying that they were "just friends" when interviewers would ask, and harry never seemed opposed to him saying that, either.  in a way, louis probably did it to protect harry too, cause of the womanizer image that was being forced on him.  still tho, as hard as it all was/is for harry, I can't even begin to imagine how horrible it was for louis :(

shygoldensunflower

@justsurvivingwith1D I completely agree with your last statement, of course I understand that. A lot. And don't don't get me started on Caroline. I wasn't tlaking about her, I was just talking about age gaps in general. Anyways, just my opinion :)

justsurvivingwith1D

I definitely don't click "not interested" or "don't recommend this channel" whenever a zarry or haylor video pops up on my fyp.  oBviOuSlY.

justsurvivingwith1D

@lunaticcat009 also, ik he was 18, but that's still a child in my eyes.  to be dating a 23 year old?  that's ridiculous and not okay whether it's a boy and woman or man and girl.

justsurvivingwith1D

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@lunaticcat009 harry really didn't benefit from it because taylor wrote shit that turned people on him.  he was already facing womanizer allegations and a disgusting amount of sexualization.  taylor's been a victim of the same thing, which is why I would've thought she'd be more mature about the situation and not egg on the same thing for harry.  that stuff's all in the past, though, and she was younger and was hurt, etc., but what's her excuse for releasing is it over now?  I can't defend her writing "you search in every maiden's bed for something greater" and "at least I had the decency to keep my nights out of sight."  she's basically whore shaming him, is she not?  a woman can write shit like that, but if a 23 year old MAN had written "you search in every man's bed for something greater" about an 18 year old GIRL, he'd be cancelled so quick, and as he should be, but the double standards are ridiculous.

lunaticcat009

@justsurvivingwith1D he was 18 i believe and by the 'over-publicised' stunt they both were equally benefiting of it..... i mean the "if you're looking for someone to write your break-up songs about" wasn't any good in my opinion too but alright... and i don't think the ppl back then would be taking a 18 yr old girl's side in this tbh .......... they are the same ppl who had been sl*tshaming tay and blaming her for for songs like dear john, all too well when the men were really more than a decade older than her.... in all honesty, media would never be on girl's side when their counterparts are more popular... during the brad cheating on jen,,, someone spread rumours about jen being infertile instead of calling brad out.. 
            
            
            but yeah maybe you're right atleast Harry in this case won't be ridiculed as much