joelmillerisagirldad

of course the first time i ever post something on ao3 the site is down a few hrs later

joelmillerisagirldad

does anyone get that thing where you wake up perfectly at the time your alarm is meant to go off but you swear that you never heard it go off even though it obviously did since it woke you up on time?
          
          I woke up, checked the time- 8:00am. Didn't hear my alarm, but it wasn't turned off or anything so it had to have gone off. Then I set a 10min nap alarm and woke up perfectly on time again, but I swear to you the alarm did not go off.
          
          Pls tell me other people get this cos its weird asl

swirlsie

yes and also i always wake up like 30 seconds before someone comes to wake me up
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joelmillerisagirldad

im back to ask a question(and rant)—Can you be genderfluid, but be 95% prefered gender???? i don't know if I'm just trans man who occasionally likes dressing feminine and doing makeup or if I'm genderfluid with a heavy lean towards being masculine.
          
          The first one makes a lot more sense because I've been brought up knowing the whole "boys need to be masculine at all times" (not from my parents, mainly from secondary socialisation at school and from media) and that could be why I'm so confused that I want to sometimes wear a dress or wear eyeliner because that "should" make me dysphoric. I NEVER see any trans men talk about how they like to be feminine occasionally or that they aren't dysphoric about their lower half or their hips so I don't know if I am genderfluid or if my dysphoria is just not as severe as others.

joelmillerisagirldad

update- changed my name back to my birth one and now go by all pronouns but mainly they/them. funny how things change over time
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riviereparadisia-x

i mean it seems like the whole part of introducing genderfluid labels is bc gender is pretty fluid in humans?? but i understand wanting to figure out if ur a man in ur head i don’t have experience with that but what u say makes sense :)
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lovinq_munson

I feel the exact same way bro. I’m just as confused as you are 
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joelmillerisagirldad

Unpopular opinion but Call Me By Your Name is such a weird film. The age gap is my biggest issue. Elio is 17. Oliver is 24. I know that during the time it was set the age of consent was 14, but tbh its still gross. 

joelmillerisagirldad

@riviereparadisia-x kinda off topic but ty for censoring p3d***ilia 
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riviereparadisia-x

I just get so anxious cuz it’s a topic where people have strong feelings and I think your opinion is actually pretty popular.
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marvel_turtle-SS

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uh hello i just want to say that if you like jammidogger and noah finacna (fucking cant spell) you might like one topic at a time :>> he's a lovely ally and makes reddit videos all the time I think you'd like him a lot

CoudNotCareLess

@marvel_turtle-SS I LOVE OP!! HE'S AMAZING!!
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joelmillerisagirldad

@marvel_turtle-SS thank you ,I'll check him out
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