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❝ one thing i have learnt this year is to live and live in the moment. life is tough, life is overwhelming and life is a struggle. a struggle to hold on. a constant battle of choosing between what it is and what it should be. this year, you found yourself in situations you never could've possibly imagined yourself to be in. you looked for yourself in everywhere you went and everyone you met. you thrived, you survived, you tried - even if barely. for the year, days, life to come, live. live in the moment. stay. breathe. it gets better. ❞

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❝ idk who needs to hear this but be so completely yourself that everyone else feels safe to be themselves too. stop changing yourself, your habits, your way of thinking, acting, dressing, speaking; only to be liked or accepted by people or their society. as friends, stop being mean, pretending of it as a joke. stop being insensitive towards someone's appearance. stop letting the third one walk behind saying the path is too small. compromise. squeeze em in. as a girl, stop dressing or speaking in a certain way to be noticed by a specific guy. stop pretending to not notice when another girl needs your help. as a guy, stop killing your habits just because someone else says they're not 'manly' enough. as lovers, stop keeping things from the other just for their sake. as a parent, stop doing what others tell you what would be good for your child. life is too short to have it be lived as someone else. be responsible. stay you. ❞

❝ you are here for a reason. i know that sometimes it doesn't feel that way. i know that sometimes life can be a difficult thing to navigate. it can break you down and challenge you in ways you never thought it would but i also know that you have the potential to do incredible things in this world. you have the capacity to overcome whatever it is that is hurting you or confusing you or making you doubt yourself. i need you to believe in that. believe, with reckless abandon, that you are meant to be here. trust in yourself - even if you haven't figured out what inspires you deeply, even if you haven't discovered your purpose, even if you're moving forward in the simplest, smallest of ways. just keep going. wake up each morning and be gentle with yourself. do the work. feel whatever it is that you need to feel. tuck beautiful memories into your chest for safekeeping, revisit them whenever things get too tough. remind yourself of the art you want to create, of the things you wish to write, of the places you want to visit, of the people you have yet to meet. no matter what, just continue to remind yourself that you are going to make it. ❞

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❝ Maybe you should stop overthinking so much and trust the way life happens. Things change, every year you grow into someone else, every year you have the opportunity to start over again and begin to rise and face the world the way that you want to. Take this with you, you beautiful human being...don't be afraid to fail. Don't be afraid to fall. Don't be afraid to get your heart broken. Don't be afraid at all. The fear is in your head. The doubt is in your heart - and regret survives in the memory -  that is, of you feed it, if you give into it. So please before you go, overthinking is a self-inflicting act. It is the suicide, the doubt of self, the tragedy no one understands. It is instant death without lifting a single word so don't give into it. You know you're stronger than that and capable of so much more. ❞
                                                              ╰┈➤ r. m. drake 

❝ The most people can do is feel sorry for you. They may feel bad that you had to go through a rough phase and some may console you. Some of them will even be proud of how you managed yourself, how you pretended to be fully functional despite it all. It is beyond their capacity to imagine how you emerged from fire, unscathed but as a different person. A person who believes less in miracles and pushes forward, who is afraid of happiness being followed by tragedy, who has little energy to persue formalities of an interaction. They don't know, they can't but you know you are a survivor. You know you are a fighter. Give yourself some credit. Be kind to yourself. ❞

high school starts tomorrow ( canada style ) and i’m so nervous ah it’s orientation day
          
          wish me luck!!
          
          also, are you guys in school yet? how’s it going? any.. * whispers * dRaMa?