Are you guys not ashamed!! This is a sin and try to find ur identity and peace in the one who created you !! And created everyone and everything !! Don't let the devil get over you , Don't do anything which u have to hide or can't talk to people about with looking into eyes, see ur self in mirror and think would you like ur self to be raped or loved the real agape love which can be found in the one and only creator of this world and you !