colabiscuit

Hello so I'm having a major problem here and please help me out:) All you need to do is  give me advise:) 
          	
          	So the thing is:
          	I had a classmate who hated me last year. And when this new school year begins I became friends with her by talking about Kpop. She used to hate SVT and always claimed that she isn't interested. She said that they weren't her style.  I was the only one in my class who likes SVT then. 
          	
          	Later, I tried to get her into liking SVT by sending her pics regularly. And I believe that after this, we would have more conversations and all that. She stopped her hatred towards them since 2016 mama and said she was interested in Hoshi. Later, she watched one fine day (13 boys castaway) and said that she likes them but cannot enter the fandom since its just like, not yet a fan.
          	
          	Around, January, after boom boom promotion, I found out that her best friend, who loved infinite, claimed to be a carat. Her best friend  said that they are charming in boom boom promotion and began doodling SVT stuff in her textbooks. That's when my so-called 'jealousy' appeared.
          	
          	Later on, my classmates also showed symptoms that she was slipping into the diamond life. She started posting SVT in her stories, she even used woozi as her Instagram private account icon yesterday. She had other groups that she claims to love. Including SVT, she called them 'The top 5'. She posted the least stuff SVT comparing to the other 4. She planned to buy albums and is even going to Seventeen's concert (which  I am not going due to a trip...poor me).
          	
          	further thoughts in the comments section since there is a word limit

HONEYHOONS

@colabiscuit this is really old but ill still reply to it :)
          	  
          	  I think it's their loss because they never truly got to know the boys, all they did was like the way they look or how they sing, which are good things but at the same time bad. For example i dont like woozi just because of how he looks, I like him because i relate to the fact that he had a hard time making friends and had a cold personality but eventually opened up. it really is their loss that they dont try to get to know all of the boys because they are really amazing and have such different personalities and still work together perfectly.
          	  
          	  sorry that im only replying now but i hope that the situation is over
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colabiscuit

My thought is that, they changed too quickly. Everyone started to love SVT after the boom boom era but they do not love who SVT truly is. They did not love the boys who suddenly spit out random jokes or compose funny poems. They just love the SVT who is onstage with the type of style they like. Once these concepts are over and SVT get back to their original selves, will they still love them like they did now? They claimed that they love them 100% but if that's so, why didn't they fell for them when I told them about SVT during pretty u era? Their answer is that they did not know about SVT... haha as if... I talked about them everyday and I don't believe that nonsense.
          	  
          	  I know I should be happy is having a bigger fandom. But my classmates was right,'Who wants their idols who are not that popular to become very popular?' I didn't understand what she meant by then but I knew very clearly how does this feels. I kept telling myself I should be happy. But there is a big part of e who is jealous, who is angry, who feels as if something precious was stolen away. 
          	  
          	  this issue has been bugging me for weeks now so please help me!! I would answer any question and all I ask is your thoughts and advice Thank you:)
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colabiscuit

Hello so I'm having a major problem here and please help me out:) All you need to do is  give me advise:) 
          
          So the thing is:
          I had a classmate who hated me last year. And when this new school year begins I became friends with her by talking about Kpop. She used to hate SVT and always claimed that she isn't interested. She said that they weren't her style.  I was the only one in my class who likes SVT then. 
          
          Later, I tried to get her into liking SVT by sending her pics regularly. And I believe that after this, we would have more conversations and all that. She stopped her hatred towards them since 2016 mama and said she was interested in Hoshi. Later, she watched one fine day (13 boys castaway) and said that she likes them but cannot enter the fandom since its just like, not yet a fan.
          
          Around, January, after boom boom promotion, I found out that her best friend, who loved infinite, claimed to be a carat. Her best friend  said that they are charming in boom boom promotion and began doodling SVT stuff in her textbooks. That's when my so-called 'jealousy' appeared.
          
          Later on, my classmates also showed symptoms that she was slipping into the diamond life. She started posting SVT in her stories, she even used woozi as her Instagram private account icon yesterday. She had other groups that she claims to love. Including SVT, she called them 'The top 5'. She posted the least stuff SVT comparing to the other 4. She planned to buy albums and is even going to Seventeen's concert (which  I am not going due to a trip...poor me).
          
          further thoughts in the comments section since there is a word limit

HONEYHOONS

@colabiscuit this is really old but ill still reply to it :)
            
            I think it's their loss because they never truly got to know the boys, all they did was like the way they look or how they sing, which are good things but at the same time bad. For example i dont like woozi just because of how he looks, I like him because i relate to the fact that he had a hard time making friends and had a cold personality but eventually opened up. it really is their loss that they dont try to get to know all of the boys because they are really amazing and have such different personalities and still work together perfectly.
            
            sorry that im only replying now but i hope that the situation is over
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colabiscuit

My thought is that, they changed too quickly. Everyone started to love SVT after the boom boom era but they do not love who SVT truly is. They did not love the boys who suddenly spit out random jokes or compose funny poems. They just love the SVT who is onstage with the type of style they like. Once these concepts are over and SVT get back to their original selves, will they still love them like they did now? They claimed that they love them 100% but if that's so, why didn't they fell for them when I told them about SVT during pretty u era? Their answer is that they did not know about SVT... haha as if... I talked about them everyday and I don't believe that nonsense.
            
            I know I should be happy is having a bigger fandom. But my classmates was right,'Who wants their idols who are not that popular to become very popular?' I didn't understand what she meant by then but I knew very clearly how does this feels. I kept telling myself I should be happy. But there is a big part of e who is jealous, who is angry, who feels as if something precious was stolen away. 
            
            this issue has been bugging me for weeks now so please help me!! I would answer any question and all I ask is your thoughts and advice Thank you:)
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