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Also don’t come at me w “it’s just smut!!” because here’s the deal: srry but fantasies in smut or porn (even if it’s vanilla) aren’t usually shit u can expect from real life or things that can happen safely with both(or more) parties consent, if ur first exposure to sex even before actual sex education, is through porn or smut especially if young then it’s unavoidable for u to have unhealthy expectations from sex.