XenaKingston

I play in the land of mice and men but I do not belong. I am not graceful enough to be called a lady and too much of a threat to be embraced by the menfolk. Some whisper that I am a modern day Cinderella, others call me an Ugly Duckling. If you saw me on the street would you give me a second glance? It is tough being a woman. 

Who am I?