Weird_bro11

Ok so I saw that the Stranger Things' fandom is... bad? Cringe? Idk so much abt it, and yeah, I know that some things are too much, as always. But... if liking a tv series is cringe, then what? Having an hyperfixation is cringe? Liking a character is cringe? Having an OTP/shipping characters is cringe? Being a nerd is cringe? Loving someone is cringe? Now what, our entire life is "cringe"?! I think that the problem here is the internet, cuz ppl are always there looking at what other ppl do and like. As I said before, some things are just too much, but- just ignore them? Just... continue your life? You like a series/book/film? Okay. You're in the fandom? Okay. And continue you fvcking life pls! Why can't we just enjoy the fact that we love an amazing show? 
          	Also, I really liked Eddie's character, and I cried a bit when he died but I literally love almost all of the characters. And yeah, I kinda ship Byler but I don't hate those who ship Mileven. Like ??? aren't we mature people???
          	
          	(pls reply I need to talk abt this)

hi_its_Ro

@Weird_bro11  ti rispondo in italiano. Non ho guardato Stranger Things e non ho intenzione di farlo perché mi urta la faccia di Steve.
          	  Ora ascolti YUNGBLUD pure tuuuuu Domanda: quale versione di Tissues preferisci: quella originale o quella con Louane, che ha una parte in francese?
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Weird_bro11

Ok so I saw that the Stranger Things' fandom is... bad? Cringe? Idk so much abt it, and yeah, I know that some things are too much, as always. But... if liking a tv series is cringe, then what? Having an hyperfixation is cringe? Liking a character is cringe? Having an OTP/shipping characters is cringe? Being a nerd is cringe? Loving someone is cringe? Now what, our entire life is "cringe"?! I think that the problem here is the internet, cuz ppl are always there looking at what other ppl do and like. As I said before, some things are just too much, but- just ignore them? Just... continue your life? You like a series/book/film? Okay. You're in the fandom? Okay. And continue you fvcking life pls! Why can't we just enjoy the fact that we love an amazing show? 
          Also, I really liked Eddie's character, and I cried a bit when he died but I literally love almost all of the characters. And yeah, I kinda ship Byler but I don't hate those who ship Mileven. Like ??? aren't we mature people???
          
          (pls reply I need to talk abt this)

hi_its_Ro

@Weird_bro11  ti rispondo in italiano. Non ho guardato Stranger Things e non ho intenzione di farlo perché mi urta la faccia di Steve.
            Ora ascolti YUNGBLUD pure tuuuuu Domanda: quale versione di Tissues preferisci: quella originale o quella con Louane, che ha una parte in francese?
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Weird_bro11

Feeling dysphoric...

ZiSoBo

@hi_its_Ro ho visto solo ora... scusa è da secoli che non guardo questo account.
            Comunque, mia mamma nel frattempo mi ha chiesto se volessi una specie di binder ma io le ho detto che dovevo pensarci... Sono scemo lo so. È che ho avuto paura... Per i capelli ti ho scritto su pin :) e comunque anche le ragazze cis possono avere i capelli corti, che ragionamento è (quello di tua mamma)
            *hug* comunque non so come potresti aiutare. Semplicemente a volte non so nemmeno io cosa provo riguardo al mio corpo e al mio essere AFAB... Cioè sì disforia ma si presenta in vari orrendi modi...
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hi_its_Ro

@Weird_sib011    I can understand you... My mum said that she won't let me cut my hair too much. She said "you can cut it only a little bit because you're a so beautiful GIRL with long hair". I will not ask her if she can buy me a binder, I'm pretty sure she will say "you're only confused, using a binder is very bad for your body" and so on
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hi_its_Ro

@Weird_sib011 *hug* can I help you anyway?
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Weird_bro11

!VENT!
          
          Well...
          I had a fight with a friend, pretty badly, like she told me I have to stop being like this and start being normal otherwise I'll be alone on the fringes of society, she told me I look like an as$h0le who doesn't feel empathy, she told me I'll be alone, she used her painful sarcasm, pouring all her problems and fears on me. Because she's the one who does this and will be alone, and conforming won't make her feel better, especially because she's queer. She said I can't continue like this because I'll be alone! I'm speechless. She made me feel like sh1t, she was a b1tch, she made no sense and she was mean for no reason. She got angry again yesterday, even though I hadn't noticed, because of something I said to one of our classmates!!! Seriously! That's why she said I'm "too empathetic". As if I wasn't, but what does she know.  I kept quiet though, thinking of the worst things I wanted to do to myself at that moment; I didn't do anything though. It's not worth it.
          Thank you for reading... ugh. Why does she/he have to be so mean with me. What tf did I do-

snorlabxja

@ZiSoBo just be straightforward with them. Tell her you’re not what she thinks you are, tell her you do care about her, tell her you don’t like it when she says rude things like that. Maybe I’m wrong because I’ve never actually met her but idk if I can help in any way
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ZiSoBo

@snorlabxja f*ck I meant that she said that she is too empathetic... she told me that I'm too "cold" with ppl and that I'm NOT empathetic... but he had just to stfu because she doesn't know anything, but I just shut up...
            I know that she has some mental health problems like self-harm but I don't really know if he does this just for attention... and ok that might seem cruel but among other things yesterday she said something also abt her self-harm, and abt basically the fact that we (me and our friends group) don't give her enough attention for this.
            I hate this. I thought that we were friends... 
            Also thank you for listening to me <3
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snorlabxja

@Weird_sib011 honestly that’s just bitch behavior. I mean, obviously there’s some underlying low self esteem behind what she’s saying, but that doesn’t get to excuse what he does. She’s wrong by the way—there’s no such thing as being “too empathetic” she doesn’t decide who or what you care about.
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Weird_bro11

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snorlabxja

@ZiSoBo that’s okay!! Not being cis is a strange and sometimes uncomfortable territory. I’m nonbinary but the thing is sometimes I feel like a girl. Sometimes I feel like a boy, too, but the genderfluid label doesn’t fit for me. What label you used might be the closest thing to the fit you’ll ever have and that’s amazing, and you’ll need to remind yourself that absolutely nothing defines how you be queer.  The only thing that should inherently make you queer is that you’re having these doubts to begin with! Cis people don’t have anxiety over their gender, and that’s a pretty good sign.
            
            You’re doing great, my friend.
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ZiSoBo

@OnlyCharl13 @snorlabxja ok... thank you... It's just that sometimes I feel like I'm just a cis girl that is faking but this doesn't make sense since I don't have any reason to fake (hello this is my 1st account if you haven't noticed :D) 
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snorlabxja

@Weird_sib011 you are THE MOST VALID AND DON'T YOU FORGET IT
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Weird_bro11

I feel like making an announcement here, so HIIII HOW ARE YOUUUU

_vintageheart

@Weird_sib011  if you need help, I'm always here :)
            Sorry, I didn't receive the notification 
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Weird_bro11

-book-aholic you're fine! That's awesome!
            I'm tired... This week I'll have a test a day and I also have to prepare my exam... Save me
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