It's a broad ass country so it really depends on which state you visit and what bothers/interests you... we got all sorts of weathers, densities, cultures, and vibes here...like if you dig art and fashion and Sex and the City vibes, and the smell of urine doesn't bother you much, go to New York not Malibu... you know? I've been living in Oregon and Washington and it's friendly af over here; but then I went to Chicago once and I got mugged in the middle of the day. So yeah it really depends on what you like