SteeleEmpress
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Thank you! Your story had me in tears from nearly the start! It resonates with me so much and the years I spent as an unwanted wife! It is crazy how up until the first authors note, I had experienced nearly all the same details within my marriage from the husband cheating and choosing another ( weeks before our 17th anniversary) with no remorse and only a cold shoulder that was created from years of “subtle influence”or brainwashing from his mother, 45 days after his girlfriend announced herself with a midnight pic of them in bed, my husband hit a tree over 100 mph. His bitch mother kept me from being able to see him while in the hospital while she again brainwashed him while the nurses kept him as a POW even wiring his mouth closed with no reason, also trached him and didn allow him a voice box to speak for 17 days after ripping the wires from his mouth only two days after they were placed and just before he vomited from the charcoal they ran through his stomach for 4 days! I fought for my husbands life every day even going to the hospital law offices twice trying to get in the hospital! The night before his release I snuck in and stayed all night with him before hijacking him from his mother at discharge. I was so happy to bring him home but so heartbroken to hear how much his mother had brainwashed him trying to convince him he was in love with the whore that gave him syphillus and how I was moved on in another relationship! My husband didn’t even remember that woman all he wondered is where his wife was! And the only answer was from his manipulative mother! His father died just a year later intensifying his trauma and depression as well as the whore trying to whisper her love and my demise in his confused ear! Two years later we are still healing and finding our way back to each other.
SteeleEmpress
I have struggled with feeling weak and foolish for ever taking him back after everything! I struggle with the confusion his mother planted in his mind, and I struggle with the wonder if I can ever love him like I used to or drop my wall completely and open up and trust him again!
Your story helped me find strength and dignity in my decision instead of the shame I can easily feel if I allow myself! U put all my pains, disappointments, silent struggles, self questioning and breaking of my soul into such eloquently stated words I made my husband also read your story and for the first time I think he was forced to see the amount of turmoil he put our family through and could finally understand exactly what I meant for the last 7 years of how his mother changed his perception, personality, and priorities of life from a perfect husband and father to a monster!! And the war he had inside of himself acting against what was in his heart! Thank you so very much I really needed this boost of “you’re an amazing wife, not a total fool!”
No matter how my story ends! Thank u again! ❤️
