Raamyuun

You can love someone more than yourself, accept them for their flaws and strive to help them be a better person. You can cut off a hypothetical limb for them and go through all the extremes but if the person themself isn't willing to change at all then no amount of love will change that person. 
          	
          	Please do yourself a favor and find someone who can grow together with you, you're not responsible for someone else's personal growth. It's not your burden to carry.

Raamyuun

You can love someone more than yourself, accept them for their flaws and strive to help them be a better person. You can cut off a hypothetical limb for them and go through all the extremes but if the person themself isn't willing to change at all then no amount of love will change that person. 
          
          Please do yourself a favor and find someone who can grow together with you, you're not responsible for someone else's personal growth. It's not your burden to carry.