ParMithee

Hi everyone ❤️
          	
          	I’m always open to criticism about the story, the characters or my writing style. 
          	That’s part of sharing my work and I respect different opinions.
          	
          	However, I’d like to draw a clear line -personal comments about me (like calling me “horrible” or “insensitive”) are not okay.You don’t know me personally or what I’ve carried through the years, so statements like that are not acceptable.
          	
          	If a story doesn’t work for you, it’s completely fine to stop reading. But please keep feedback focused on the work, not on me as a person.
          	
          	Thank you to those who continue to engage with kindness and respect ❤️

arintia_89

@ParMithee yes, agree with you. Attacking someone personally without knowing them in real is not something nice to do. 
          	  
          	  I hope you're doing well and always surrounded by a lot loves everyday. Always take care Author
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ParMithee

@Banaki Thank you. That’s exactly how I feel too. I’ve always appreciated constructive criticism because it helps me grow as a writer......but personal attacks over fictional characters or stories can become really exhausting after a point.
          	  
          	  Your understanding and support genuinely mean a lot to me.
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ParMithee

@arintia_89 Thank you so much for this. Honestly, words from you matter a lot to me because you’ve been here for a long time and have seen both my stories and me through different phases.
          	  
          	  I think what hurt wasn’t criticism about a story but people forming opinions about me personally without really knowing me at all. So your message genuinely brought me comfort.
          	  
          	  And don’t worry, I’m not disappearing forever. I just need a little pause from everything. *Virtual hug*
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spencerkay1986

Hi ParMithee, 
          
          Hope you are doing okay.
          
          I know sometimes we do feel not that well.
          
          Stay fighting. Let’s do it one day at a time!
          
          You are one of the great author I like.
          
          Hopefully, you can get out of whatever you are in.
          
          Fighting!!!

spencerkay1986

Hey, I may not know what you are going through, but I know that sometimes ( or most of the time?) what we need is to step back and take a deep (a lot of it) breathe (inhale, exhale) to let a bit of the tension go. If might not help us solve the things we needed solving but I believe it will help us to focus on what matter most (or at least clear our mind a bit). 
            Outside (even inside) voices will always be there but we can always manage (or at least try to) what we can keep and bit by bit learn to let go of the things we shouldn’t (keep).
            If you need someone to dump things on, I am open. Write them down and PM them, hopefully that can help a little to you.
            Fighting!!! ❤️‍‍️‍
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ParMithee

@spencerkay1986 ❤️ I hope so too.
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RAGLOPES

Oh my God. What happened? Please come back!
          I need to finish the story, and there are others I’d like to read.

ParMithee

@Nalicee_23 ❤️ Thank you
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ParMithee

@RAGLOPES Give me sometime. The stories will be back.
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Nalicee_23

@RAGLOPES It's been a while since she disappeared, it would be good if someone knew if she had X to talk to her.
            
            Amazing author, I love her stories
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TheBlackUnicorn14

Hello my dear author. I hope you're doing well. Not sure if you're working on a new story or not. I just wanna check in on your well-being. I've reread some of your stories over again, like I always said, I can't get enough of them. There's something about your writing that captured my heart. I feel at home. A place where I feel peace. And I wanna thank you for sharing what's in your head. Have a wonderful day ahead

ParMithee

@TheBlackUnicorn14 Hello ❤️
            
            Thank you so much for checking in on me. And thank you for rereading my stories. Knowing that something I wrote became a place of comfort for someone is honestly one of the greatest compliments a writer can receive.
            
            To answer your question honestly, no, I'm not working on a new story right now.
            
            At the moment, I'm going through a few things and my heart simply isn't in a place where I can write love the way I want to. The stories I write are usually filled with love, care, protection, comfort and people finding a home in each other. Right now, I don't feel connected to those emotions enough to write them truthfully.
            
            I could force myself to write but I don't think it would be fair to the story. I'd rather stay silent  than write something my heart isn't fully present in.
            
            For now, I'm just trying to focus on myself and get through things one day at a time.
            
            Your message was genuinely lovely to read, though. Thank you for thinking of me and for continuing to revisit my stories. It means more than you know.
            
            Take care of yourself too ❤️
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