POETS_SYSTEM

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Hey this is random but can everyone stop commenting how us being a system is "really cool" and "super interesting" and shit? Like i get it, its new information and stuff but the fact we have a TRAUMA DISORDER is not "cool" whatsoever. You wouldnt say that to any of our other disorders would you? So please stop saying it about our C-DID. Also stop making huge deals of our large alter counts, we are a complex/polyfragmented system so we naturally split a lot more alters, and they literally contribute to our survival coping with stress and trauma, so gawking over it is really dehumanizing for us and weird. This is just to set this boundry once and for all, at first we didnt mind it all that much and ignored it but ever since our book has gotten more popular we're noticing more unwarented comments about our system, so yeah please stop that'd be awesome. If you'd like to be more informed and educated on systems and how to be respectful please message us on discord  #the jumpscares#0420), on instagram (the.poets.system) or send an anonymous message on tellonym (the.poets)
          	
          	(Sorry if i seem really blunt, im just tired of our system being uncomfortable and not saying anything about it)

POETS_SYSTEM

@ADRII3LLA Most of all id say give them support, if they let you, try and understand them more/meet alters, and do your own research. And definitely ask for their boindries because every system likes to be treated in different ways, dont pry into their personal life, dont pry into their trauma withput consent, dont make unsolicited comments or romantisize their disorder, because its not fun to have, its a disibility at the end of the day. If you have more in depth questions we'd rather you ask on instagram or theough tellonym ^^ /g/info
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ADRII3LLA

@POETS_SYSTEM | so sorry if i’ve done this in the past, i understand why its wrong now, thank you ! if you wouldn’t mind, what should you say when someone tells you they’re a system ? thank you !
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POETS_SYSTEM

@_heifer_ its totally fine, we understand a lot of people just arent educated on etiquette when talking to systems !! And thats totally ok, but us setting this boundry is important because it was a ra both, its no ones fault though! Just a learning moment ^^ :D
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POETS_SYSTEM

this message may be offensive
Hey this is random but can everyone stop commenting how us being a system is "really cool" and "super interesting" and shit? Like i get it, its new information and stuff but the fact we have a TRAUMA DISORDER is not "cool" whatsoever. You wouldnt say that to any of our other disorders would you? So please stop saying it about our C-DID. Also stop making huge deals of our large alter counts, we are a complex/polyfragmented system so we naturally split a lot more alters, and they literally contribute to our survival coping with stress and trauma, so gawking over it is really dehumanizing for us and weird. This is just to set this boundry once and for all, at first we didnt mind it all that much and ignored it but ever since our book has gotten more popular we're noticing more unwarented comments about our system, so yeah please stop that'd be awesome. If you'd like to be more informed and educated on systems and how to be respectful please message us on discord  #the jumpscares#0420), on instagram (the.poets.system) or send an anonymous message on tellonym (the.poets)
          
          (Sorry if i seem really blunt, im just tired of our system being uncomfortable and not saying anything about it)

POETS_SYSTEM

@ADRII3LLA Most of all id say give them support, if they let you, try and understand them more/meet alters, and do your own research. And definitely ask for their boindries because every system likes to be treated in different ways, dont pry into their personal life, dont pry into their trauma withput consent, dont make unsolicited comments or romantisize their disorder, because its not fun to have, its a disibility at the end of the day. If you have more in depth questions we'd rather you ask on instagram or theough tellonym ^^ /g/info
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ADRII3LLA

@POETS_SYSTEM | so sorry if i’ve done this in the past, i understand why its wrong now, thank you ! if you wouldn’t mind, what should you say when someone tells you they’re a system ? thank you !
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POETS_SYSTEM

@_heifer_ its totally fine, we understand a lot of people just arent educated on etiquette when talking to systems !! And thats totally ok, but us setting this boundry is important because it was a ra both, its no ones fault though! Just a learning moment ^^ :D
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We updated all our account shit, you can find all of our links and info there. Including tellonym and instagram for sustem questions (or other random chatting stuff) and also our discord server (specific to MOGAI, systems, and ND folxs)

POETS_SYSTEM

We have a new book for our system! Its system specific and we hope to educate singlets and uneducated systems and just share general information about our own experiences as a system! (And tbh just shitpost sometimes akzbsjz)