advice of the day , if you see this RELATIONSHIPS SUCK , focus on yourself nd learn self love nd care before you try nd fix anybody else . doesnt matter if smb wants to vent to you , dont let them cs as soon as you need to let sumn off yo chest they aint there , so as i quote , stick to focusing on yourself , dont hide your pain cs that makes problems in the future , keep yourself in a small but trust worthy circle , be yourself , keep an open mind nd take everything seriously , UNDERSTAND fully of what someone says to you before you respond . if you dont know where to start , then start small nd do the things you enjoy , dont give up , i love you guys ❤️ .