ok that makes a lot of sense
i do need my parents to let me handle things myself though, i don’t need to do it their way if i know what i’m doing when it comes to protecting myself
i’ve set the boundaries. i understand how she feels, and i forgive her and am validating her feelings. that does not mean however that i’m going to trust her and be her friend again, since that’s hard to come back from.
i’m happy to be compassionate towards her though and still care for her as a person, i wish people understood my point of view </3