GSmeangirl

This is for the writers who continue to be petty. I mean the petty of blocking someone that supported you, someone who said for you to grieve a fictional couple but to continue to write. Someone who said to go through the process of a fictional break up and not make hasty decisions. As a writer of BL I understand your grief. I definitely know that a story can be an escape for someone else. 
          
          I'm so fucking confused why so many young writers take offense to everything. You have a BL pair who have never announced a romantic relationship outside of their job description, so why in the actual fuck do people act like rabbid animals because they split? Some pairs stay together forever (ForceBook) some pairs were quick to end (OhmNannon) or some pairs decided that they could no longer grow as a pair together (JoongDunk) because of their actual lives. These are humans that also have a private life. At some point their future means more than kissing another boy on screen. Peoples priorities are so jacked at this point it's not just ridiculous it's FUCKING RIDICULOUS!
          
          Emotions are clouding these people's judgement that it's becoming concerning. But to be childish and block someone that supported you, is really fucked up. Idols are idols. We idolize them, we're not supposed to live and breathe these people. They owe us nothing. They were paid to perform. But to base your whole life on them, is ( I don't even have a word appropriate enough). All I'm saying is grieve the loss of the pair but don't base their relationship real or fake on your life choices. Grow up and stop blocking people that supported you but told you the cold hard truth of reality!!!

@GSmeangirl Understood madame! 

@GSmeangirl thank you for the advice 🙂‍↕️💗

@GSmeangirl I thought by repeat you meant I copied it🙂🤚🏻 sorry for confusion here , I'll review it again and correct it 

Let's make this loud and clear... I have never made fun of any of you as a person. This includes your name. I have only ever commented about a person's story. Regardless of redundancy, sexual scenes, summaries at the beginning of chapters or what feelings were being conveyed. So, the comments are opinions or (criticisms) not attacks or harassment. I swear you people go above and beyond all on your own. It's actually comical sometimes. Originally my name was used but apparently by commenting about a redundant story, I was told I was mean. Perfect. Name fit right? It was changed to appease you people. 😁
          
          Now, my name gets attached. BSmeangirl. Lmao. I already have a child with those initials. And yes, it's hilarious getting an email with the subject line as BS. You're free to be petty but so am I. You block so when I go to comment it comes up blank. Sorry sweetie, you blocked first, so now you post on my wall as someone else... Then have a third person (you I assume) do it too. Petty. 
          
          So again, my opinion has caused me to be jealous and block people. Nah boo... You blocked first. I have zero reason to be jealous (fyi... You're a follower of mine 😉) you've even made some very sweet comments on MY stories. I stand by what I said but I'll also stop you when you stoop low and start going after my name. 

Let me make this very clear to people who think my comments are bullying or harassment... They are an opinion. I do not call names unless you stoop low first, it's usually because you take my name to be used as your defense. It was actually changed to that because of how incredibly ridiculous some of you are.
          
          That being said, I don't not apologize for my opinions. I will not but what you won't do, is use my name in a post and think you've done nothing wrong and then cry to this platform after you wrote about me on another platform. 
          
          I'm a writer as well. I use a different name. A particular person who has an issue, follows me as a writer. Always comments on my work and has even written their own story. I haven't complained nor have I intentionally singled that person out for their story. Same plot, same use of words, the only slight difference between the story is character names. Once I was told I copied until the person who complained actually looked at the dates of my posted story and then the other. No apology afterwards. 
          
          The problem is, this new generation only worries about words not the context of words. There's zero editing or proofreading ones work. It's just become a jumble of words and pretending it's a story. I don't write to appease people, I do it for me. When someone tells you that your story is redundant, why take it the wrong way. Saying the same thing over and over is bad. When a person tells you that your love scenes come across childish and incomplete, why are you getting defensive. 
          
          If you're shy, you shouldn't be writing a specific kind of story, especially if sex is involved. Most of these writers are teens. Why is an app allowing 14 year old to write a sexual scene about rape? But hey, let's threaten someone else for pointing that out. Wattpad definitely isn't a safe space so then why are they worried about a negative comment (I don't know what was said) but not worried about children being on this app reading and writing adult content. 

Getting really sick and tired of others thinking that criticism means disrespect. It doesn't. It means a person has an opinion and states it. It isn't their problem if someone takes it as an offense. There's a fine line of being petty to the point where you post BS on your own page or posting that same BS to a different platform. As a writer myself (published under another name) I take all comments good or bad and think about what is being said. I also don't block people so they cannot reply to a negative comment, I do not write a personal post about them. That isn't being a writer, it means you're a whiny little bitch who has an ego problem with someone criticizing their writing. Edits are the reason for a writer to make adjustments. They are the reason a writer grows and becomes better! 
          
          Am I mean? Am I rude? No! I just state my opinion freely. If you don't like it... Take a look in the mirror before you make a post because of an opinion that told you exactly how your writing was. I don't coddle, I don't sugarcoat and I definitely don't give a fuck about your feelings. 
          
          I can have an opinion, yes you don't have to agree but before you call me names, comment then block so I can't reply... Think about why you just exposed yourself as someone who can't handle criticism. I hope this explains why I will not stop being who I am. Fyi... I have praised writers, I have also had a writer tell me that I was harsh but because of that they want to grow into something better. And guess what... They have! They have made adjustments to their repetitiveness and actually have written feelings instead of making the implications! Those are the type of writers that are successful instead of the ones who only seek validation!