Cactus_Friend

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So in honor of it being pride month, I thought I’d mention, for anyone who didn’t already know, that there is an official Frog and Toad cartoon and it’s one of the most faithful book to tv renditions I’ve seen. It’s beautiful and the theme song is the most wholesome gay shit I’ve ever heard. Also, the head writer said that he wasn’t interested in removing the gay interpretation of the show. They’re never canonically together, but they’re basically Aziraphale and Crowley season 1, so overtly queerplatonic at minimum. Anyway, have a great pride month, go out of your way to learn something new about queer history, and if you go to pride parades, make sure to pack all of your essentials like water, sunscreen, and snacks! 
          	
          	-Cactus

Cactus_Friend

this message may be offensive
So in honor of it being pride month, I thought I’d mention, for anyone who didn’t already know, that there is an official Frog and Toad cartoon and it’s one of the most faithful book to tv renditions I’ve seen. It’s beautiful and the theme song is the most wholesome gay shit I’ve ever heard. Also, the head writer said that he wasn’t interested in removing the gay interpretation of the show. They’re never canonically together, but they’re basically Aziraphale and Crowley season 1, so overtly queerplatonic at minimum. Anyway, have a great pride month, go out of your way to learn something new about queer history, and if you go to pride parades, make sure to pack all of your essentials like water, sunscreen, and snacks! 
          
          -Cactus

Citrus_Cyrus

Every time THL updates I scream and open wattpad after it’s been laying dead for months i literally only have this app for this story somebody sedate me

Citrus_Cyrus

i literally deviated over to ao3 and manhwas/webtoon, so quite literally wattpad is only sustained by my love for your book. the first time i read it was so amazing, i actually reread the first book and i never do that i just wanted to reread about Kayden’s struggles with school since it’s so relatable (+ i like their interactions enough to be entertained twice)
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Cactus_Friend

Thank you, I’m glad I could be that author for you! But honestly, I kind of feel that sentiment. I used to find so much to read on here and in the past few years I feel like there’s just almost nothing that interests me outside of the books of one or two authors 
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Cactus_Friend

Hey everyone, I know it’s been a hot minute, but I’m finally back to working on THL and I might have a chapter up tomorrow or Tuesday. It’s an Ezra and Grant chapter and it’s one I’ve been thinking about writing for about a year now. Hopefully I will get back to writing more regularly soon, but either way, I wanted to update everyone. Hope you’re all having a good Labor Day weekend if you celebrate and remember to stay hydrated! 
          
          -Cactus

Cactus_Friend

@areal_menace Wow, thank you! It always amazes me when people tell me that my books are their favorites. I mean, I have my favorite Wattpad books too, but I guess I just get a weird imposter syndrome about my own writing. I'm glad you've been enjoying them!
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areal_menace

I just finished the first book, and started the second all in a day, I love it so much, new favorite books 
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Rensk2302

@ Cactus_Friend  YES OMG TAKE YOUR TIME BUT PLEASE HURRY. I NEED NEW CHAPTERS
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Cactus_Friend

Hey everyone, so there's something I've been thinking about for a while now and haven't brought up because I hadn't made a decision on it, but now that I have, I just wanted to make a quick announcement. When I started writing books on here, I was significantly younger than the vast majority of my characters, but after years, I've grown and my characters haven't really. I guess now that I'm out of my teens and in college, I've stopped wanting to write about teenagers so much. Just to be clear, I am still continuing THL, but I don't feel comfortable writing smut about teenagers anymore. As of right now, I won't be editing older content to take it out, but going forward, it won't be included in the second THL book. Sex scenes will be alluded to, but there will not be graphic descriptive scenes of it because I feel like I'm just past the age for writing that. That being said, I am not policing anyone else's reading or writing preferences, I understand these are all fictional characters and also that teenagers, especially older teenagers, do have sex and that's fine as long as it's safe and consensual, I just don't want to write that into my stories. It's also not like I'll never write smut again, I still have plans for books about adults, but after THL, I will likely be pivoting away from stories that take place in high school. Anyway, thanks for sticking by me and I hope to get you guys more updates in the future. Stay hydrated and I'll see you soon! 
          
          -Cactus

Cactus_Friend

@aurorakeys It's been like a month since I've been on Wattpad, so I just saw this, but yeah, I agree with you personally and that was part of the reason why I made the decision. I don't want to give Wattpad reasons to take my books down, but also, I'm an adult and it was starting to hit me that my characters aren't at my age and maturity level. Being 21 now, I see 16-17 year olds for what they are, kids. Of course, you don't see it that way when you ARE 17, and stories about high school experiences are still valuable stories, but it just made me uncomfortable to continue writing about minors that way when I wasn't one anymore. This is also a trend I've seen happen with a few other writers on here who started out writing high school stories and either leave or age up their stories when they get to college, so it felt like the time for me to do that as well. I know I made my brand somewhat about high school stories, but some of the context of writing has changed for me, and part of maturing is adjusting your choices to follow the changes in the context of your life. There is still one more story I have maybe on the backburner that follows a group of high schoolers, but for the most part, I wanted to hard pivot to writing in the new adult genre partially because a lot of people expect smut in Wattpad books, and partially because I'm just about out of stories that I want to tell about high schoolers.
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aurorakeys

@aurorakeys (it really just depends how far you go with writing teens tbh)
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aurorakeys

@Cactus_Friend that’s Vaild (;  if an author is not comfortable writing about teens anymore esp sumt respected and nobody should complain either .  Also knowing how wattpad changed the consent to 18 it’s also for the best too(  Also I don’t wanna be attacked by this and this is just my take but I feel like adults writing sumt between teens especially minors is just werid even if they’re  fictional tbh I think I would get if the characters are legal of age tho)) but besides that write what your feel comfortable with I’ll still be interested in your books regardless!
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Cactus_Friend

I swear, nothing compares to the feeling of finally finding the perfect ending for a chapter. Chapter 4 of THL2 should be coming out tonight or tomorrow sometime, I just need to finalize some things. Also I just wanted to take a second to appreciate the people who are sticking with me through the second book. I know it’s really slow right now, but I want to make sure that every chapter is the best it can be. Hopefully at some point I’ll be able to put them out faster again, but for now, this is kind of where we’re at. Anyway, have a great day or night and I’ll see you all soon! 
          
          -Cactus 

Mermergreatp

(Embarassingly slides in here) Heyyyy Cactus. If I had thought of this before, I would've commented it. Anyway. Do you have a playlist for To Have Loved that you can share? I listen to indie music but not the kind that is showcased in THL and I like to try all kinds of music. I want to see if I like it or not. 
          
          -A' Meir

Mermergreatp

@Cactus_Friend Ok! I'll make sure to check it out and listen to it. I'll probably like it since I enjoy midwest emo. Thanks for sharing it with me!
            
            -A' Meir
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Cactus_Friend

@Mermergreatp Oh yeah! It's called Slowburn Suffering on spotify and mostly includes the songs I've put at the tops of chapters. I think it's mostly a mix of indie, midwest emo, and some other random songs I found that fit the book.
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Citrus_Cyrus

Is it crazy that I want so badly to jump into THL 2 just to be that one really annoying friend to Elias that never leaves him alone and slowly convinces him that it’s okay to choose himself 
          
          also: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH i love THL 1 & 2 so much. I relate to Kaden SO MUCH and I love their stupid little friendship and whatever they’re having in 2 

Cactus_Friend

Hey so random request, but if anyone who's read any of Pixie's books could give me some recs for stories by other authors that feel similar to their style, I'd be forever grateful. I've been searching, but it's hard to find something that hits that particular spot for me. Pretty much all of their books are just so beautifully melancholic and I really miss that. Alternatively, I could just reread The Treehouse and sob.  
          
          -Cactus

Im_dreadful

@Cactus_Friend oh, I'm incredibly late but maybe I suggest @anasianamateur ? Her books make me cry and fit into that kind of beautifully melancholy type that you were looking for
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inhumanmerp

@Cactus_Friend awesome! i am glad to have helped. lmk if they aren't your cup of tea... i think ive got a few more up my sleeve.
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Cactus_Friend

@inhumanmerp Ooh, thank you! I haven't heard of those, but I'll try out a few of them!
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Mermergreatp

I was going to put this on a comment you replied on, but decided it would be more effective here. I enjoy your books and personality so much because you seem like such an invested person in learning and making sure you know what you're talking about. Your writing style is so fluid and heavenly. You're so poetic and I love that. Your writing is one of the reasons I became so obssessed with grammatical correctedness in my everyday writing. Your writing gives me inspiration to write poetry. You seem like such an opinionated and blunt person that let's people know what you think. As a highly opinionated person who sometimes thinks my opinions are too much, I look up to you. You're such an awesome sausome person and I dearly hope you obtain all that you want in life.
          
          -A' Meir

Mermergreatp

@Cactus_Friend Ahhhh, you replied! I don't have much to say right now, but thx for replying! <3
            
            PS: Fizz is indeed an awesome sausome character and I want a miniseries about his and Asmo's relationship. They're so cute!
            
            -A' Meir <3
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Cactus_Friend

@Mermergreatp Hey, so I just saw this and oh my god, you are so sweet and I'm so happy that I inspired you to write poetry. When I started writing THL, I just wanted to share my love of literature and tell this little story I had in my head about a queer group of friends in a boy's boarding school. Since then, I've met a ton of people who have that same love of writing, reading, and philosophy, and that's a big part of why I wanted to continue with the books. Also, yeah, I'm definitely an opinionated person haha. I think the best thing I've learned from it is that voicing my opinions and setting boundaries means some people aren't going to like me, and that's okay. You can be kind and empathetic, but don't compromise yourself for people who wouldn't do the same for you. You're not too much. 
            
            PS: I see that Helluva Boss reference and Fizz is hands down the best character in that show, I wish so badly he got more screen time outside of his dedicated episodes. 
            
            -Cactus
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