I'm so close on making a Connor x Reader cause all I see here is "Miss, she/her"
Stop thinking that only women read x readers fanfics. Your books would be talked about more if you use gender neutral pronouns, it's easy to use it. Don't use the "it's grammatically incorrect" stop that BS
"She looked into his eyes with despair" to "They looked into his eyes with despair."
If someone's talking about reader don't use "She is... Very pretty." Use, "They're... Very pretty"
Its that easy