that_royal_writer

Watched this podcast and found something mindblowing that I think will help. So I have this problem and I am sure many of you do, that I am soo harsh on myself, like even for the minute things. I once cried because my manager yelled at someone else and I flinched and that I managed to convince myself that I am weak for doing that.
          	
          	Anyway so in this podcast, Dr. Sid Warrier who is a neurosurgeon said that the reason it happens is because of an indentity crisis. The prefrontal cortex of our brain sees us as a certain type of person and our actions did not align with that.
          	
          	In my case, I see myself and I want myself to be a strong women but strong women don't flinch when someone else gets yelled at. So the Sana I think I am did not align with my actions and the solution to that is to find words to the emotions. 
          	
          	Whenever you get overwhelmed with anything talk to yourself, journal or just analyze what happened so that you can slowly convince your mind that it's okay and bring back the alignment.
          	
          	I've seen this suggestion for the first time but I've subconsiously been doing it everytime I get overwhelmed. Sometimes I get overwhelmed to even go to the grocery store lol. I have to tell myself  "Sanu, sweetheart calm down. One step at a time, now get out of the bed, take the bag and walk to the door" 
          	
          	I hope none of you relate to this but if you do just know that you are not alone and you can overcome this. Wish someone told me this but instead one of my best friends just rolled her eyes when I told her my problem...as if she only sees it as laziness. My other friend was supportive though and so was my family even though they fully didn't understand what my problem is. 
          	
          	So if you have this problem, know that you are not alone. I am with you :)
          	
          	Here is the link - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJVbKsXBTno

_SmilyVi

Hey dear author!
          
          I am absolutely in love with your work. The choice of words you use in your writing shows us how intelligent you are. While reading the book, I experienced every emotion through the dialogues. I wish so much for your book to be adapted into a movie.
          
          I just love the war strategies and especially the level of understanding and trust between Adinath and Vyshnavi.
          
          Being a Telugu reader, I must say I'm very proud of you. I believe that every Orange app reader will definitely give your book a try.
          
          In love with #ChameleonBrothers (sorry, highly adaptive nature-living beings)

_acommoner_

I have never written to any author ever but your book Enchanted was fabulous.
          If you ever wish to publish it in hardcover I won't hesitate to buy it. 
          I aspire to be like you.
          Lots of love and support and prayers to you
          Thank you for your hardwork
          Truly indebted to you for ur stories

inyuinyuu

heyy, i just wanted to tell you that, your "Enchanted" is the first book I ever read in this platform (although I did read another book but it's not completed yet so :( ) and i absolutely loved it. I could almost tell how intelligent you are just by reading the book. I really love your writing and your work is a literal art form and you're too underrated tbh...I really hope your work gets more recognition!! i love you and keep updating enchanted - by innocence because it's the only thing that's been keeping me going! Also congratulations for all the successful you've been getting I'm sure it's because of your sheer hardwork and intelligence. Love you and just thank you so much for existing! (sorry if that sounded creepy...)

that_royal_writer

Watched this podcast and found something mindblowing that I think will help. So I have this problem and I am sure many of you do, that I am soo harsh on myself, like even for the minute things. I once cried because my manager yelled at someone else and I flinched and that I managed to convince myself that I am weak for doing that.
          
          Anyway so in this podcast, Dr. Sid Warrier who is a neurosurgeon said that the reason it happens is because of an indentity crisis. The prefrontal cortex of our brain sees us as a certain type of person and our actions did not align with that.
          
          In my case, I see myself and I want myself to be a strong women but strong women don't flinch when someone else gets yelled at. So the Sana I think I am did not align with my actions and the solution to that is to find words to the emotions. 
          
          Whenever you get overwhelmed with anything talk to yourself, journal or just analyze what happened so that you can slowly convince your mind that it's okay and bring back the alignment.
          
          I've seen this suggestion for the first time but I've subconsiously been doing it everytime I get overwhelmed. Sometimes I get overwhelmed to even go to the grocery store lol. I have to tell myself  "Sanu, sweetheart calm down. One step at a time, now get out of the bed, take the bag and walk to the door" 
          
          I hope none of you relate to this but if you do just know that you are not alone and you can overcome this. Wish someone told me this but instead one of my best friends just rolled her eyes when I told her my problem...as if she only sees it as laziness. My other friend was supportive though and so was my family even though they fully didn't understand what my problem is. 
          
          So if you have this problem, know that you are not alone. I am with you :)
          
          Here is the link - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJVbKsXBTno

Chaotic_bear6

Can I get your email? Because I imagined the biuldings with a desi touch and I really really want you to see them but I dont have an instagram.

Chaotic_bear6

They're AI generated too
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that_royal_writer

Guys I used AI to generate the different buildings in the crown's home (described in chapter 2) and omggg they are beautiful 
          
          I shared it here - https://www.instagram.com/p/C7Lq1qbync5/?igsh=MWNvZmkwN2RvczJ3Nw==
          
          Have a look here and you'll be able to visualise the Enchanted world better

KAIRAVIJOSHI

Hii
          This is one of your followers. Can u please recommend the type of stories you write fo4 me to read because I am actually so thrilled and addicted be the way you write and now it's difficult to find such type of work and the way of writing.

AuthorSerene29

@KAIRAVIJOSHI if you want I can give you more suggestion...
            Pls dm me
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that_royal_writer

@KAIRAVIJOSHI Unfortunately I don't read here so can't suggest but looks like @AuthorSerene29 has some suggestions you can check out :)
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AuthorSerene29

@KAIRAVIJOSHI you can read stories of @vencie_wrts Her stories are also written with very good words...
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that_royal_writer

Okay so for the language of the North, I got so many options and they are honestly quite overwhelming lol. I personally am inclined towards languages that are under represented but again, I need help.
          
          Cause I don't want to randomly use words for the sake of it. I want to make sure it's authentic and respectful. With Tamil, Telugu, and Hindi I had an advantage that I know those languages, but if we were to pick up languages like Bengali/Odia/Assamese/Marathi I am absolutely clueless.
          
          So reply here and tell me if you would be able to help with the language you suggested....like "I'll be able to help with Bengali" etc. We will shortlist the languages that have atleast 3 people who can help and go from there ❤️

SrinithiGL

I can help with Tamil only as it is my native language and the language i am comfortable using for olden times 
            (I mean like shuddh hindi , i can afford to pure tamil words too)
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vyshu_avi

@that_royal_writer as you said telugu we had some influence of urdu in the language too and i think it will be ok if you use some urdu mixed in hindi in pref if there are no much of influence of character in the story because urdu as a language can change culture language many ithers just keep this in your mind if it is worth a shot and i think it is aso will be a experiment based on your writing
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Thoughts_and_Keys

I will be able to help you with Bengali
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