seasfire

hey guys- maybe this is a bit to personal to bring on this app but i have a rocky relationship with a certain someone’s o the point where everyone around me (and i) have called them abusive. however, i’ve had the unfortunate pleasure of watching them cry from stress and such and now im thinking they can’t be abusive and that it’s my fault they’re tired of me. idk what to do lmfaooo 

porcelainspider

@seasfire | hello! if everyone around you (including you) are calling them abusive - they probably are. abusers can cry, they can laugh, but it doesn't change the harm they can do to you. if everyone around you can see how awful they are then they probably are and you didn't do anything wrong in any regards. please, be safe!! just because they have feelings doesn't make your feelings and everyone else's feeling invalid.
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seasfire

hey guys- maybe this is a bit to personal to bring on this app but i have a rocky relationship with a certain someone’s o the point where everyone around me (and i) have called them abusive. however, i’ve had the unfortunate pleasure of watching them cry from stress and such and now im thinking they can’t be abusive and that it’s my fault they’re tired of me. idk what to do lmfaooo 

porcelainspider

@seasfire | hello! if everyone around you (including you) are calling them abusive - they probably are. abusers can cry, they can laugh, but it doesn't change the harm they can do to you. if everyone around you can see how awful they are then they probably are and you didn't do anything wrong in any regards. please, be safe!! just because they have feelings doesn't make your feelings and everyone else's feeling invalid.
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seasfire

Lmfao I lost motivation to write and now I’m back with a whole new theme and wanting to post poetry- I need therapy