itsybitsybella

how did everything get so bad ?

itsybitsybella

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i have this cat called cici, she's such an obedient cat and never caused any trouble. She gave birth once when she was younger, her children didn't survive because they were premature and she doesn't have any idea of how to take care of them.
          
          But some months ago, she gave birth to Jerry. Like literally gave birth infront of me lol. And she was a great mom. She took care of Jerry nicely and never left her side unless we're in the same room with Jerry. She also took care of her sister's children. Like she's their second mother. They loved her. 
          
          Today my dad got a call from our security guard saying that cici is dead. Attacked by dogs. I fucking hate dogs.
          
          And worse of all, her only child, Jerry, was also attacked and now both of them are gone. Dead. Their necks got bite marks on it and the dogs are around my area probably looking for more victims. I hate them.
          
          Jerry was probably looking for her mother and was attacked too. I hate thinking about it. Jerry was a nice cat. So humble like her mother. If i give them treats, she'll let other eat first and never put up a fight if her treat got eaten by her cousins.
          
          I'll miss them both a lot. Cici doesn't deserve this at all. I'm sorry.

itsybitsybella

sometimes i wonder why do i get attached to cats (and people tbh) so easily to the point that i feel like i can't breathe when they're gone.
          
          sometimes i wonder why can't i just hate cats and be allergic to them so I won't feel so bad when they're dead.
          
          sometimes i wonder how unhappy my cats must've been when i don't give them the love they deserve.
          
          sometimes i wonder why my cats don't just run away and never come back again because of how bad i treated them.
          
          sometimes i wonder if i give them enough pets and love.
          
          just sometimes.

itsybitsybella

i feel so bad for my lil brother because rn we're in a vacation outside of the country alright, and it's his birthday today, he was excited to be having his birthday celebration in another country but guess what ..
          
          he got nothing for his birthday, like not even a flick of a candle, a slice of a cake, birthday gifts (ofc he got some birthday wishes) and i saw how excited he was to actually get the opportunity to celebrate his birthday outside of the country
          
          it's all because our parents and some of my relatives wanted to go shopping and we spent the whole day trailing them from one shop to another and we were soooo tired cus there's nothing interesting. Honestly I'll be disappointed too if it's my birthday and nothing happened. Like my normal day is more cheerful than my birthday ykwim. We were so worn out today from all the trailing the “real adults” that we didn't get to do anything else.
          
          they're wasting our time and they dare to say that “you guys shouldn't actually come with us to this trip if all u do is whine” like bro i almost faint following them around while their eyes sparkles looking at all those clothes that we could get back at home and cheaper ...
          
          the point is i feel like that's the reason my lil brother doesn't really want to open up to our parents, they made him feel like his feelings aren't valid and that his emotions aren't acceptable. They made him feel like he's asking for too much and that he doesn't deserve what he actually wants. I know this because I've been in his situation and it honestly is so disappointing from my own parents. I've been disappointed in them way more than I've done to them. And it's the worst feeling ever. I hope my brother is okay.

itsybitsybella

it's actually my ex's crush(?) or idk situationship birthday today and it took me back to last year where i stayed up to wish him exactly at 12 am and man how i miss him. And the memories we made.
          
          i actually for once really like someone and he actually really likes, well liked me, and i messed it up. 
          
          he wasn't my first anything but i was his first everything. And i stopped talking to him cus i was so blinded by other relationships. I MEAN i saw couples that buys luxury for their other ones and bring them out and all that stuff and i got jealous (?) i was thinking that maybe he doesn't want to do that. Maybe, he thinks that all that stuff is a waste of time. But i saw how he tried to do his best for me. And i regret ending everything tbh.
          
          i was too focus on other things (especially my studies tho) to not see that i actually meant a lot to him. I saw how he tried to fix things and communicate with me (he thought i was mad at him) and how he tried to approached me (he's VERY introvert) and i just shrugged him off. I acted like he didn't exist which must've hurt. 
          
          im thinking maybe i actually did love him.
          
          I'M THE PROBLEM

itsybitsybella

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how are kids so wild these days ...
          
          like it's crazy, a 13 y/o kid who's a MINOR liking me just because i was nice to her in A GAME.
          
          she start putting our avatars together on tiktok and saying that we're dating while exposing her age AND my age, making people assumed that im a fucking ped0phile ???
          
          while i confronted her about her behaviour in her comments and clearing my name, she responded with “HAHAHAKDKSJDJ” i mean i understand she's definitely not mature enough but she most definitely knows that it's wrong to act that way and behaving the way she did. 
          
          She made me SOOOO UNCOMFORTABLE ISTG like she's calling me mommy and all and when i asked her to stop being so weird and told her about how it's making me uncomfortable, she just said it's because she's a kid. She's most definitely aware of the age differences
          
          It's honestly sad and disgusting to see this behaviour from a child. Atp im grateful my parents didn't let me get a phone when i was younger.