glassidol

Guys I made this gc for people I met on Wattpad, the age range is 10-16 so um pls respond cuz it would be embarrassing to be ignored okay thanks 

glassidol

@glassidol I think it's because I sound more hesitant which I am so I end up looking more polite? Idk
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Mevanyi

@glassidol idk for some reason u seem different talking to strangers on the net
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glassidol

Guys I made this gc for people I met on Wattpad, the age range is 10-16 so um pls respond cuz it would be embarrassing to be ignored okay thanks 

glassidol

@glassidol I think it's because I sound more hesitant which I am so I end up looking more polite? Idk
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Mevanyi

@glassidol idk for some reason u seem different talking to strangers on the net
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glassidol

Hey! Uh, so I never posted a message before, so this is kinda new for me, but I've had a question for awhile and my curiosity is bothering me right now
          This question is specifically for people who've had to come out as something ( Especially in the LGBTQ+ community) 
          So, I'm a straight cis female who has a religion but isn't that practicing (sadly). Now, in my religion (not gonna say which because I don't want anyone to use stereotypes against me) it is specifically stated that being gay is a sin. Despite that I never really had a problem with people who are, it's just the way I am. My school is very adamantly supportive of the community and the stuff I expose myself too as well. But I don't know much about myself 
          
          Now, I literally do not care what happens in people's lives. I would always try my best to remember pronouns and I would never purposely try and address someone by their dead name ( I think that's what it's called). I find that disrespectful and just plain disgusting. But on the other hand, I don't see myself wanting to participate in a Pride Parade. I went to one once by accident, it seemed cool and stuff, but I don't think I would try and get a flag either. If my friend asked me to, to support them, I absolutely would. But I wouldn't go myself. Does that make me homophobic? Because I'm not actively supportive? Also, at one point, someone called me homophobic because I said that in my religion it was a sin. I didn't tell them it wasn't okay, I was just telling them the truth about MY religion. I also wasn't using that as a mean to defend homophobia, I was just stating a fact. So really my question is:
          
          •Am I homophobic? And what should I do to stop? 
          
          I really don't like offending people, so this would be really helpful, if you do decide to respond.

Reality666Rift999

@Regina_aesthetix thank you,  and no problem! I'm glad i made your day. I wish you the best of luck in the future!
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glassidol

@Reality666Rift999 Omg thank you, I just wanted to make sure. You just made my day fr! And I wish you and your girlfriend the best 
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Reality666Rift999

@Regina_aesthetix I don't think not wanting to participate in Pride is homophobic. As long as you care to remember correct pronouns, names, and what your friends prefer to identify as, and don't try to gatekeep anything, you're not homophobic. My girlfriends religion also says that being gay is a sin, and she still had the confidence to date me. So yeah, you're not homophobic.
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