asexual-as-fuck

i'm a fan of vsco girl memes. there. i've said it. 

SadNonbinary4Fiction

How did you know you were ace? I'm homoromantic but I think I'm either graysexual or asexual. Nobody I know is though so I have noone to ask.

dewflower26

Is there a time that I should have figured out if I have feelings for a gender or none at all? Is there a age at which people should have acquired or not acquired romantic or love for someone? I am wanting to know if I’m asexual, or if I’m just too immature.

asexual-as-fuck

@dewflower26 well I guess if at the end of the day, if that's how you feel, then you should identify with whatever makes you comfortable.
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dewflower26

Actually I have experienced no sexual attraction, sorry about the miscommunication. I have thought that people are pretty, or cute, or nice, but not sexually attractive. Not so I want to kiss anyone, let alone have sex with anyone.
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asexual-as-fuck

@dewflower26 In my experience, no. But everyone is very differen experience. Some people experience love or sexual attraction at earlier ages than others. I just have to go off of how I've felt (or I guess not felt?) for a long time, especially compared to some of my friends or when I watch a TV show or something. And no one's really required to experience these things by a certain age or whatever, but it's often assumed that everyone has by at least their late teens. And from what you're asking about love, it seems that you're asking if you're aromantic or not, not asexual as asexual just means the lack of sexual attraction while aromantic meand lack of romantic attraction. And in my opinion it's too early to know if you're ace/aro (or both) up to about 14/15 years old. I hope this helps! 
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