Problem Solving

I have three exes, but there are only two reasons why.

When Kelley came back with a confession he's still into me, I wasn't surprised. I told him the reason, and hence my first, why I broke up with him. David's second return and attempt to chase me again was suspended because of the second reason why I broke up with him, making him second in the list of my exes.

But when Judah started walking in the same lane again? I kept my mouth shut, because there is no exact reason why I made him the third in my list.

Or... if he's really included in the list.