Is this really happening?

Alex has had a pretty rough life, abandoned by her parents a short time after birth then spending most of her childhood in an abusive orphanage. Until, Avi Kaplan and Kirstie Maldonado adopt her and take her life on a whole different turn. But there's another problem, Avi has had issues with self harming and suicidal thoughts, along with many other issues since his teens, and his old habits are now starting to come back... How will Alex deal with having a long distance relationship, having to help herself get better from her own issues, and worry about her new father that's going back into a bad mental state? And...she may have another equally confusing dilemma; she's becoming unsure of her gender and needs to find out who she really is.