Why is everyone obessed with kissing

Hi, I'm aroace and some things around romance culture make my brain hurt ????
If you're aroace you might relate to some of this or maybe not. Idk. I just need to do something with these thoughts before they consume me

Includes:

Thoughts
Rambles
Rants
Occasional mention of Jatp or Jeremy and Carolynn Shada because I can't shut my mouth
Possibly made up stories with aroace aro or ace characters