Moving In

Girls came from Venus, and boys came from Mars, is what you're taught as kids, as well as if a boy likes you then he will be mean to you, that's what we are taught as young girls, yet Nyte never thought that things like villains existed, truly she didn't, until she moved to Gotham, and had her first encounter with a villain called The Joker.
Her life takes a 180, a chubby girl that's the new girl in Gotham, a girl that grew up in a bumpkin small town, who is too pure and honest to others, who is also autistic at 30.
Does it mean that a man such as Joker loves her if he is undeniably scary?